Why do we fight?
Because of anger more likely, but what level of anger do we have to reach before it becomes violent.
When persons get violent someone is bound to get hurt especially when escalated physically; and for an individual to physically harm another they must be enemies.
Let’s be realistic though we all have disagreements among our friends,families,lovers and even strangers alike at times for innumerable reasons, arguments sometimes start from the simplest and most insignificant things where it’s almost laughable to consider how big conflicts can arise from the smallest of disagreements.
It totally depends on the individuals as to who they are and how they operate which will determine the end result of certain confrontations; some know how to take a more peaceful approach towards matters of interaction while others may be less emotionally intelligent or not conscious enough to take the more appropriate route but as mentioned in life “10 persons 10 different minds”.
Some people are more compatible than others, some are more easy going and prefer peace of mind thus to avoid unnecessary confrontations while some may be war mongers who feed off challenges and strife.
We may argue our opinions or beliefs intelligently so as to get our point across without the need of raising our blood pressure; however what happens when that intention goes south where it gets disrespectful either from any party involved; this can lead to insults and once insults are thrown instantly so can fists.
What happens when arguments become physical fights where anger burns at its peak and if none decide to walk away the matter could become severe or even lethal,
We’ve heard of and seen many instances where persons close to each other have fought even to the point where it has been brutal and in cases unbelievable to observe what has occured.
Children have fought:brothers, sisters and the variations go on but what happens when partners fight; especially persons committed to each other who see each others faces day to day and basically sharing a life together, now that may be a whole other scenario to consider.
Partners fight all the time it’s just a regular part of life, this is true but at the same time a dislike the existence of its prevalence within society.
It’s a known fact that violence more than often stems from angry people so in a relationship where the person in the Union are angry that’s obvious reason for concern because relationships, marriage and even friendships are supposed to be about making each other happy and not the opposite for who really wants to be around a person who makes them angry all the time?
In a case between man and woman the physically stronger in the partnership may more than likely be the one to cause most harm; excluding certain factors like the use of weapons from either side or the use of external individuals to enforce upon the other meaning a man can physically beat his woman,she could use a frying pot to fracture his cranium or get her siblings to beat up her man but evidently for any relationship to reach such a point in any case probably was better off being discontinued from the get go.
These actions especially towards the persons whom we should cherish the most are acts of hatred,
So in a bond bred from hatred where love should be the source; there’s bound to be a disaster.
Domestic violence is a prevalent occurrence and while circumstances differ on a large scale it should be regarded as not worth it to be abusing or causing pain to your partner rather physically, mentally or emotionally.
Our aim should be to avoid the toxicity for the sake of tranquility and longevity; because what doesn’t kill us might make us stronger but what inspires,motivates and complements us can make us a better person.
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